No legacy is so rich as honesty.

Instead, speaking the truth in love,
we will in all things grow up
into him who is the Head, that is, Christ.
Ephesians 4:15 (NIV)

If we are careless with the truth in small matters, it stands to reason that we cannot be trusted with important matters. Sometimes the truth is difficult. Truthful words are accurate. Words spoken in love can be a blessing. Difficult and painful truth spoken in love is redemptive, this kind of speech blesses those hear it and matures those who speak it. While speaking the truth in love is often not easy, it’s worth it! Look at God and see how painful it was to speak his Word in love by sending Jesus. But in the process of that one sacrificial Word, he has saved us and revealed his heart of grace, mercy, and love.

Holy God, may the words I speak
be truthful and loving.
Please forgive me when I have told the
“painful truth” to win arguments,
to hurt feelings, or to impress others.
Please forgive me for the times I exaggerated
and distorted your truth.

I want my words to be simple and tender,
truthful and loving.

I want others to see your grace
in the way I speak to them.

In the name of my Savior, Jesus, I pray.
Amen

 

Unknown's avatar

Author: Ken Crawford

Church Transitions and Conflict Solutions

Leave a comment